Tips for Living with Dementia

Learning of a dementia diagnosis can be daunting and worrisome, especially if you don’t know much about the disease. Stigmas surrounding dementia may leave you or a loved one feeling anxious about the future. However, it’s absolutely possible to live well with dementia, as long as you understand how to adapt to progressing symptoms. 

While some lifestyle changes may be made as time progresses, planning ahead and making decisions about your lifestyle will enable you or your loved one to live well with dementia.

Coming to Terms with Living with Dementia

The news that you or a loved one is living with dementia can be difficult to accept. Concerns and questions may surface immediately or develop over time. This is entirely natural. But by seeking support from loved ones, medical professionals and care providers, you can fully understand the choices available to you. 

Opening up a dialogue with someone, whether they are a family member, a friend, a member of a support group or a charity, will give you an opportunity to share your experiences and seek invaluable reassurance and support so you never feel isolated. 

The prospect of adapting your lifestyle over time may feel daunting. A diagnosis of dementia may present different challenges than others encounter in their lives, but with your support network, you will be able to make informed decisions to enable you to live a life you love.

Planning for the Future

Dementia can bring about unexpected changes to your health and lifestyle, and these new challenges can make it difficult to think about the future. However, it’s important to think ahead. Planning for the future will not only ensure that you are able to make your own decisions about the life you want, but you’ll be able to communicate your wishes with loved ones, so they can act in your best interests when needed.

An advanced statement is not legally binding, but it is a document that outlines your preferences and wishes regarding your care and lifestyle in the future. If future decisions are made by a person on your behalf, any advance statement must be taken into account.

As part of your preparations, you may contact a care provider to discuss how they will support you in the future. Sharing your advance statement with an experienced and caring professional will help you establish your wishes for future care, and the transition to receiving support from carers won’t be so daunting.

If you would like to state your wishes in a legal capacity, you can:

Establish an Advanced Decision

Unlike an advanced statement, an advanced decision is legally binding. An advance decision is a decision made whilst you possess mental capacity, where you can outline your refusal of a specific type of treatment at some time in the future. Although this can be difficult to discuss, an advanced decision will help you maintain control over future decisions about your medical treatment.

Establish a Power of Attorney

A power of attorney gives your nominated adult ‘attorney’ the power to act legally on your behalf for financial and property matters, plus decisions on welfare and medical treatment if you lack the capacity to do so for yourself. Although not mandatory, it is advisable to establish a lasting power of attorney through a solicitor.

Specialist Dementia Care at Home

With assistance from professional care providers, you will have the right support to enable you to live confidently, safely and independently. Your loved ones will naturally be concerned for your well-being, so inviting a care provider to support you in your home will give them reassurance and peace of mind. 

With guidance and support, you’ll be able to make decisions that suit your circumstances and your lifestyle.

Visiting Home Care

Many care providers use different terms to refer to visiting home care. No matter what label is attached to the service, it’s advisable to contact the care provider to discuss the support they offer for each service. 

At Patricia White’s, daily home care is available from once a week to multiple visits each day. The level of support ranges from companionship and help with everyday household tasks, to support with aspects of daily routines such as bathing and continence care. 

The benefit of visiting home care is that the frequency and duration of the visits you receive can be changed as your dementia progresses, and the bespoke support will ensure your welfare is at the very centre of every decision that’s made about your care. 

By remaining in the familiar comforts and routines of your home environment, you’ll be able to live the life you know and love, as independently as possible.

Live-in Home Care

In the later stages of dementia, you or your loved one may require more support than that which visiting home care can accommodate. Live-in home care ensures that you or your loved one receives one-to-one bespoke full-time care from a carer (or carers) living alongside them in the home. 

The familiarity of our own home environments can help to make us feel safe and comforted. Even if we are generally unaware of our surroundings in the later stages of dementia, our senses may still recognise elements of the home environment, which can be a source of comfort in times of distress. 

A live-in carer will be carefully selected by your care provider to ensure that they are experienced and a suitable match to your lifestyle and personality. Maintaining a regular routine is beneficial for someone living with dementia, and a live-in carer will enable you or your loved one to follow their daily routines and behavioural patterns as freely as possible.

Care Homes

Care homes offer a very different environment. While the buildings are secure and adapted for residents’ varying needs, the staff-to-resident ratio is 1:4 on average. The staff in a care home may be responsible for the care of numerous residents, while a live-in carer will give you or your loved one their undivided attention. 

Care homes are also an unfamiliar environment, and routines, comforts and familiarities of home are often lost, which can be distressing and unsettling. Staying close to loved ones, keeping pets, maintaining routines and many other aspects of life should be considered before making the decision to move into a care home.

Practical Tips for Living Well with Dementia

The progressive nature of dementia means that symptoms will develop and become more significant over time. The rate of the progression and the type of dementia may vary with each person, but there are many simple ways to live well with dementia.

Living a healthy lifestyle is important for everyone. A balanced, nourishing diet will help maintain your physical well-being, so you can focus on the lifestyle you want. Remaining as active as possible is scientifically proven to boost your mood because your brain releases chemicals that promote confidence and happiness.

Maintaining your social life is vital for mental health and well-being. Engaging in local groups, hobbies and events will not only keep your mind active, but social interaction will combat feelings of isolation. 

Engaging with others in a shared activity will help you or your loved one feel supported as part of a community, and it’ll also give you the opportunity to share your experiences and seek advice and guidance.

Creating the Best Possible Home Environment

There are several ways you can adapt the home to make it more helpful for individuals with dementia, such as: 

• Keep a diary and write down things you want to remember
• Pin a weekly timetable to the wall
• Put your keys in an obvious place, such as a large bowl in the hall
• Have a daily newspaper delivered to remind you of the date and day
• Put labels on cupboards or drawers
• Place helpful telephone numbers by the phone
• Write reminders to yourself – for example, put a note on the front door to take your keys
• Programme people’s names and numbers into your phone
• Install safety devices, such as gas detectors and smoke alarms
• Put bills on direct debits, so you don’t forget to pay them
• A pill organiser box can be helpful for remembering which medications to take and when

Talk to Our Dedicated Team of Experts Today

The standards set by Patricia White 30 years ago still apply today. Call our experienced team today on 01293 224708 to discuss your home care needs and receive a free, no-obligation quotation.

Or feel free to send us a message using our online enquiry form. A member of our expert care team will respond as soon as possible, typically within 24 hours.